Boys

Why is it no matter how much time I put into thinking I don't need males the moment one comes around I feel like I can't live without them? I mean it can't just be any male, but still, does a women really need a man to feel important in life?
Women have such low self-esteem that most cannot function without someone there telling them they are important, which is why so many women are getting married at such a young age. Also, most women get married early because they are to lazy to work and rather just raise children. Deep down I think even independent women want a man in their life, sure they don't need one but it would give their life more meaning. Why is that? I honestly don't know. Why is it that humans seek attention from other humans? Why do we seek love? Why is our entire existence based on finding "love" and raising a family and taking care of our family/ourselves? Shouldn't there be so much more?
If we had more time to do other things and didn't have to focus so much on searching and working, maybe we would have time to figure out things in life. Things like why we are alive, who is god, maybe we could even learn from history's mistakes.... MAYBE, just maybe, there would be less mistakes made because we wouldn't be focused on our feelings but on our thoughts and logic. Yeah, being in your head 100% of the time isn't good, but maybe if we thoroughly thought out mostly everything we did there would be less deaths, less suicides, less wars, and less poverty. Example: If a high school student was doing bad in school and thought about just dropping out, if he thought about it he wouldn't because it would be harder to get a job, it would be harder to support himself. He would realize it was just a small portion of his life he would need to complete in order to have better things later and not have to beg off the streets until he would eventually die.