I've have low self-esteem since I was 5, when for class we weighed ourselves and I was the tallest by a lot so of course I weighed the most... Ever since then I've thought I was fat.
I've been suicidally depressed since I was 16 years old, when I realized my life really had no meaning and no purpose and that I was going to lose everything and have to start over after I left the high school.
I've been deceiving myself, telling myself that if I get prettier or if I get skinnier or if I find a career I enjoy, that my life will change. That I will be happy and feel complete. It's not true, I don't feel ugly... I don't feel fat.... and I finally figured out things I"m good at and can do... but it doesn't matter. After 21 years, i finally figured out that there is no reason for me to be alive, that no matter how perfect my life is... I will never be happy because that's how I'm programmed to be. I was born to be sad, alone, and depressed. Continuing on in this journey of life without meaning... so I've decided I'm going to forget. I'm going to use everything in my power to forget who I am, who I was, and who I have to be. I'm going to forget I"m alive and forget that death is in existence. I'm going to play house until one day it just disappears. I'm not going to play by the rules others set, I'm going to play by my own rules and things that make my life interesting. I will not fear, I will not hesitate, I will not second guess what I want to do, and I definitely will not play any more stupid mind games. This life is messed up and I'm not going to walk on the sidewalk with everyone else, if I have to be alive... I'm going to play some messed up games of my own.
Thursday, April 4, 2013
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Birthful Death
So this thought has been on mind for a really long time...
What's the point in birth when it ends to die?
Hearing death pound upon my door,
only pain lives here,
breathing in cold icy air,
time is nye and I've left no trail,
do all feel this worthless pain?
Yeah it sucks, but this is how I hear stuff in my head...
What's the point in birth when it ends to die?
Hearing death pound upon my door,
only pain lives here,
breathing in cold icy air,
time is nye and I've left no trail,
do all feel this worthless pain?
Yeah it sucks, but this is how I hear stuff in my head...
Sunday, February 10, 2013
Maybe if I was different
Do you ever wish you could go back? Back to when times were simple. Times when people loved you and you loved them. Times when all you needed was imagination and the outdoors. Times when making friends was easy and you were suppose to be friends with everyone. When the only thing you worried about was the fact there wasn't ever enough time in the day to finish your game. When you weren't afraid to get in trouble for picking flowers at the neighbors house. When Climbing on houses and fences seemed normal and fun (well it still kind of is :P) Back when telling someone they were cute was easy because you felt invincible. What would you have done differently?
Let's start from the first thing I would change...
1. I would have never let my mom dress me for pictures
2. Kissed Mitchel Washburn not gone for Ty Sorensen
3. Dressed better
4. Stayed in touch with everyone who moved away.
5. Exercised more and took dance classes
6. Done better in the science fair
7. Made a better drama video
8. Told Brett how I felt in 7th-8th grade
9. Took dance
10. Never swear
11. Got better grades
12. Had more confidence
13. Made more dependable friends
14. Never steady dated
15. Took French
16. Been less crazy
17. Had less anger management issues.
18. Hung out with the neighbor boy less
19. Draw more
20. Took advantage of David hugging me
21. Spent less money on useless things
22. Not get in a car wreck
23. (this one is over time) make less babysitting mistakes, with nieces and neighbors.
24. Got a scholarship
25. Never been so annoyed by Tyler, Brett, and Andrew
26. Gone to college right outta high school
27. Dated Jonnie earlier
28. Looked prettier
etc.
There are so many things i wish I hadn't done, more then what I put on here, but I felt they were kind of inappropriate for this blog. >.> Anyways, just wondering what is your number one thing you would have changed? Mine is been more honest with myself and my feelings to others. I spent so many years holding in how I felt and repressing horrible things in my past. This later made me crazy angry and annoying and rude to everyone because I felt very alone and stressed. Maybe everything would be different now, if I had been different.... Maybe...
Let's start from the first thing I would change...
1. I would have never let my mom dress me for pictures
2. Kissed Mitchel Washburn not gone for Ty Sorensen
3. Dressed better
4. Stayed in touch with everyone who moved away.
5. Exercised more and took dance classes
6. Done better in the science fair7. Made a better drama video
8. Told Brett how I felt in 7th-8th grade
9. Took dance
10. Never swear
11. Got better grades
12. Had more confidence
13. Made more dependable friends
14. Never steady dated
15. Took French
16. Been less crazy
17. Had less anger management issues.
18. Hung out with the neighbor boy less
19. Draw more
20. Took advantage of David hugging me
21. Spent less money on useless things
22. Not get in a car wreck
23. (this one is over time) make less babysitting mistakes, with nieces and neighbors.
24. Got a scholarship
25. Never been so annoyed by Tyler, Brett, and Andrew
26. Gone to college right outta high school
27. Dated Jonnie earlier
28. Looked prettier
etc.
There are so many things i wish I hadn't done, more then what I put on here, but I felt they were kind of inappropriate for this blog. >.> Anyways, just wondering what is your number one thing you would have changed? Mine is been more honest with myself and my feelings to others. I spent so many years holding in how I felt and repressing horrible things in my past. This later made me crazy angry and annoying and rude to everyone because I felt very alone and stressed. Maybe everything would be different now, if I had been different.... Maybe...
Wednesday, February 6, 2013
Self Esteem
Fighting your depression doesn't mean denying that you feel that way.
Depression also is never going to go away, it doesn't magically get better one day. It does get easier, but it's not magic. Fighting depression takes work, takes want. Not just the regular want, I mean hardcore down to your very last being of wanting. You have to put every little bit of strength you have into it for a very long time to make it better, but it is worth it. I'm still not completely outta my depression, but I can feel it getting better and I've been fighting this depression for my whole life. Here are some tips for things you probably have a hard time with
Self-esteem: Well sub-category this one
Looks:
Here's one I find every human being has in one way or another. Despite what you think, you're definitely not alone on this one. Even pretty stick figures have self-esteem issues, that's why they are so skinny. I could tell you to diet to make yourself feel skinnier, I could tell you to wear make-up or do little things to change the way you look... but honestly they probably won't make you happy. Yeah it will probably raise your self-esteem, but the fact is you have to work at it. Dieting and changing the way you look takes time and is a life time commitment, the second you stop you will probably go back to the old you. What you need to do is accept that you are who you are, for good or for bad you have to be you. Eventually someone will look at you differently then you do and think you're amazingly good looking, because everyone is different. We all like different stuff, so whose to say if you're not "pretty?" What even is pretty? What society says? Who are they to decide what is the best and what everyone should like, no 2 people are the same.... so doesn't that mean everyone is technically pretty just in their own way? YES IT DOES. You are good looking and people can see that, so try to remind yourself that.
Traits:
You probably don't feel like your good at anything or good enough to do anything. Guess what? Everyone feels this way too! The worst part about this one is it takes work. Saying your not good at something just means your to lazy to try. Talent doesn't just pop outta the ground it takes work and yeah you'll mess up but ya gotta push forward. The only thing you're doing by saying you suck at everything is stopping yourself from trying cuz you're to lazy or to scared of both. Yeah you may be scared, but you gotta move through that and push forward otherwise you will be stuck where you are forever. YOU HAVE TO TRY TO SUCCEED. If you need help, again like I said in another post, I'm always here for you.
The best thing to remember every day is that you are special and that life could be worse, that you actually got better then you think you did. You have a world at your feet, use it. You have so much to give and to offer us let us see what you can really do, because I believe you can be amazing if you just put your mind to it. YOU ARE AMAZING!
Depression also is never going to go away, it doesn't magically get better one day. It does get easier, but it's not magic. Fighting depression takes work, takes want. Not just the regular want, I mean hardcore down to your very last being of wanting. You have to put every little bit of strength you have into it for a very long time to make it better, but it is worth it. I'm still not completely outta my depression, but I can feel it getting better and I've been fighting this depression for my whole life. Here are some tips for things you probably have a hard time with
Self-esteem: Well sub-category this one
Looks:
Here's one I find every human being has in one way or another. Despite what you think, you're definitely not alone on this one. Even pretty stick figures have self-esteem issues, that's why they are so skinny. I could tell you to diet to make yourself feel skinnier, I could tell you to wear make-up or do little things to change the way you look... but honestly they probably won't make you happy. Yeah it will probably raise your self-esteem, but the fact is you have to work at it. Dieting and changing the way you look takes time and is a life time commitment, the second you stop you will probably go back to the old you. What you need to do is accept that you are who you are, for good or for bad you have to be you. Eventually someone will look at you differently then you do and think you're amazingly good looking, because everyone is different. We all like different stuff, so whose to say if you're not "pretty?" What even is pretty? What society says? Who are they to decide what is the best and what everyone should like, no 2 people are the same.... so doesn't that mean everyone is technically pretty just in their own way? YES IT DOES. You are good looking and people can see that, so try to remind yourself that.
Traits:
You probably don't feel like your good at anything or good enough to do anything. Guess what? Everyone feels this way too! The worst part about this one is it takes work. Saying your not good at something just means your to lazy to try. Talent doesn't just pop outta the ground it takes work and yeah you'll mess up but ya gotta push forward. The only thing you're doing by saying you suck at everything is stopping yourself from trying cuz you're to lazy or to scared of both. Yeah you may be scared, but you gotta move through that and push forward otherwise you will be stuck where you are forever. YOU HAVE TO TRY TO SUCCEED. If you need help, again like I said in another post, I'm always here for you.
The best thing to remember every day is that you are special and that life could be worse, that you actually got better then you think you did. You have a world at your feet, use it. You have so much to give and to offer us let us see what you can really do, because I believe you can be amazing if you just put your mind to it. YOU ARE AMAZING!
Monday, February 4, 2013
Friends
This post in gunna be short cuz it's just a small thought I had today.
Be friends with people who like what you like about yourself.
Be friends with people who like all of you, not just the parts they choose to see/accept.
But remember this isn't a one way street. You can't be friends with someone you don't fully like, because eventually that "small" thing that you find to be a flaw will end that relationship you have.
Be friends with people who like what you like about yourself.
Be friends with people who like all of you, not just the parts they choose to see/accept.
But remember this isn't a one way street. You can't be friends with someone you don't fully like, because eventually that "small" thing that you find to be a flaw will end that relationship you have.
Sunday, February 3, 2013
Be You!
I know what I want outta this life, I wanna make a difference, I want to help people figure out who they are and how much they actually matter. With all this crazy worldly worthless stuff in the world, people get easily distracted by stupid little things, like beauty, when they need to focus on what actually matters, themselves.
People think because they aren't the prettiest, the smartest, the most talented human being that they aren't important. They see themselves as average, to normal to be special... but they forget we're like snowflakes. No 2 people are exactly the same, even if we're similar we don't all think the same and we definitely don't look the same or grow up in the same places, but there is one thing we all have in common... we are all very important. I don't know why we're important or why we all matter, I just know we do. Everyone is, even you... though most people who think the opposite will brush it off and think "well this doesn't apply to me"... What makes you think you're so different, so horrible, so disgusting that you aren't important?
You're not abnormally ugly, even if you think so, doesn't mean it's true.
You're not abnormally stupid, everyone even if they don't know it have talents. Whether you have an AMAZING talent is based on what you want. If you want to be an artist, go trace pictures, go look up how to draw, go take drawing classes. I don't want the excuse of "I just suck at it" EVERYONE sucks at it in the beginning, I know I couldn't draw when I first started, but if you practice at whatever you want YOU CAN BE GOOD AT IT. I swear on my life, no the life of everyone I love, that practice actually does make perfect, it's cliche but it's true.
People easily get the "I can't" thought stuck in their head, I can't be as good at singing as David Bowie, I can't act as amazingly as Heath Ledger, I can't dance as pretty as Anna Pavlova, I can't draw as brilliantly as Picasso, I can't, I can't, I can't. Guess what! You can if you stop saying you can't all the time. Saying I can't is just a silly excuse to not try, if you put everything you have into something and stop worrying about failing and worrying about if you'll be better then everyone else. As long as you're trying as hard as you possibly can and enjoy what you're doing, you can be and do whatever you want. Stop complaining about how you have such a horrible life and how you're at the bottom, because we all know you're better then that. We know how much potential you have and how much you truly matter and all any of us who care want, is for you to succeed. I want to see you smile and to enjoy your life, and to live up to what I know you can succeed. Get rid of your fears, because if you fail I'll still be here to catch you, I'll always be here for you, because I love you for you always and forever.
People think because they aren't the prettiest, the smartest, the most talented human being that they aren't important. They see themselves as average, to normal to be special... but they forget we're like snowflakes. No 2 people are exactly the same, even if we're similar we don't all think the same and we definitely don't look the same or grow up in the same places, but there is one thing we all have in common... we are all very important. I don't know why we're important or why we all matter, I just know we do. Everyone is, even you... though most people who think the opposite will brush it off and think "well this doesn't apply to me"... What makes you think you're so different, so horrible, so disgusting that you aren't important?
You're not abnormally ugly, even if you think so, doesn't mean it's true.
You're not abnormally stupid, everyone even if they don't know it have talents. Whether you have an AMAZING talent is based on what you want. If you want to be an artist, go trace pictures, go look up how to draw, go take drawing classes. I don't want the excuse of "I just suck at it" EVERYONE sucks at it in the beginning, I know I couldn't draw when I first started, but if you practice at whatever you want YOU CAN BE GOOD AT IT. I swear on my life, no the life of everyone I love, that practice actually does make perfect, it's cliche but it's true.
People easily get the "I can't" thought stuck in their head, I can't be as good at singing as David Bowie, I can't act as amazingly as Heath Ledger, I can't dance as pretty as Anna Pavlova, I can't draw as brilliantly as Picasso, I can't, I can't, I can't. Guess what! You can if you stop saying you can't all the time. Saying I can't is just a silly excuse to not try, if you put everything you have into something and stop worrying about failing and worrying about if you'll be better then everyone else. As long as you're trying as hard as you possibly can and enjoy what you're doing, you can be and do whatever you want. Stop complaining about how you have such a horrible life and how you're at the bottom, because we all know you're better then that. We know how much potential you have and how much you truly matter and all any of us who care want, is for you to succeed. I want to see you smile and to enjoy your life, and to live up to what I know you can succeed. Get rid of your fears, because if you fail I'll still be here to catch you, I'll always be here for you, because I love you for you always and forever.
Friday, February 1, 2013
Individuality
If you're just like me, you probably get easily depressed or discouraged, feeling at times that you're doing nothing right and you're worthless. I don't know if this works for everyone, but I find the easiest way to get rid of these feelings is to get gussied up, grab a bunch of friends and go out to eat or go bowling or do just something fun with them in public. Not only does it get you out of your house, but you'll also feel better about yourself and build a stronger relationship with friends. If you don't have friends, you may think it's hard to make them, but honestly it's not. You just say random crap to people and if they respond in a positive way it's cuz you 2 match and should probably be friends. Your soul was designed to find people like you, you'll know when you meet them whether or not you 2 would make a good friendship.
Anyways, so why take the time to look pretty? Because when you do you'll find that you have more self-esteem and because it will make you feel better. Seriously makes a world of difference. Try it I dare ya, at first it will feel strange because you probably aren't use to it... but after you get over the initial shock of looking so amazingly gorgeous, well you already are gorgeous, but I'm talking more then usual... You seriously will have crazy amounts of self-esteem and you will feel happier. :D
If you don't have money to spend for going out somewhere, make yourself a nice picnic or pretend to have a tea party.. Yeah that seems pretty stupid and wussy, but honestly it's weirdly fun and it makes you feel unique and interesting. The more unique and individualized you feel the better, you'll be happier.
Anyways, so why take the time to look pretty? Because when you do you'll find that you have more self-esteem and because it will make you feel better. Seriously makes a world of difference. Try it I dare ya, at first it will feel strange because you probably aren't use to it... but after you get over the initial shock of looking so amazingly gorgeous, well you already are gorgeous, but I'm talking more then usual... You seriously will have crazy amounts of self-esteem and you will feel happier. :D
If you don't have money to spend for going out somewhere, make yourself a nice picnic or pretend to have a tea party.. Yeah that seems pretty stupid and wussy, but honestly it's weirdly fun and it makes you feel unique and interesting. The more unique and individualized you feel the better, you'll be happier.
Thursday, January 31, 2013
Just wait it out, it gets better.
Mustaches, I'm not attracted to men with mustaches.. but I noticed something today. I am more likely to trust a man who has a mustache then I am to trust anyone else. Why? Because my father has had a mustache as long as I can possibly remember. For those of you who don't know, my father divorced my mom when I was 9 and then moved to California when I was 11 or 12. I rarely ever see my father and we don't talk all that much. When I was younger and my mom told me my dad got divorced from her, I just shrugged. Even before they got divorced he wasn't around very much, I normally only saw him every other weekend... sometimes less... so him being gone "forever" wasn't really a huge deal to me. I did/do love my dad, but for some reason that had no effect on me at all as a little child, in fact, until very recently did it effect me at all. Which is why I find it weird that I trust mustache men so easily.
For some strange reason this year I've been missing my dad like crazy. I realize lots of my obsession with douche bag boys and thinking I deserve nothing and that nobody will ever love me is because I'm afraid to ever feel anything towards anyone, because I don't want them to leave and break my heart. I had apparently had repressed all feelings towards my dad and the situation for 11 or 12 years without even knowing it.
Until this year I never noticed I had abandonment issues or daddy issues. I thought all my anger was just cuz of my siblings (and yes part of it definitely was), but a part I hadn't realized was that I was suppressing other feelings like sadness and covering it with anger. Almost every time I've ever been angry, it was actually not anger that I was feeling it was sadness... but I thought it was better for me to get mad then to cry like a wussy.
Getting mad only gets you so far, plus you are more likely to lose friends and family and everyone you love that way, but if you're like me you haven't found a way to actually love anyone... because giving someone that kind of power over how you feel is scary. Being sad is a better way to deal with the horrible feelings of betrayal and horrible circumstances... I'm not saying you should wallow in self pity and cry all the time.. .I'm saying that crying is a part of the grieving process, because YES YOU ARE GRIEVING. Despite what you think, grieving doesn't have to be over just something big, it can be over small things like losing a friend or failing a test... So here's what you should be going through:
1. Denial and/or Isolation
2. Anger (it's better to not stay on this stage to long, it can make things worse)
3. Bargaining
4. Depression (don't stay to long on this one either)
5. Acceptance
You will hit all 5 stages at least once in this process (most likely), but if your like me you'll go through all of them multiple times in one day or over the week. It doesn't matter the order of 1-4 but as long as you can finally find acceptance, that's all that actually matters. Also, if you get stuck on an angry stage or depression for to long, seek help.. either from friends, family, youtube videos (they can help), help lines, anywhere you possibly can... You deserve to be happy and the only way you can do it is if you get rid of your negative feelings and finally realize your better then what's happening to you and move on, knowing that at some point it will have to get better... Just wait it out, just wait it out. Also if you ever need help, feel free to contact me. Send me a message or whatever, I'm hear to listen and I will try to help, because even though you're probably a stranger, I do love you. I want to help. I'm here for you if no one else is, I always will be. You matter, in my opinion more then I do. Lets do what it takes to make you as happy as I believe you deserve.
For some strange reason this year I've been missing my dad like crazy. I realize lots of my obsession with douche bag boys and thinking I deserve nothing and that nobody will ever love me is because I'm afraid to ever feel anything towards anyone, because I don't want them to leave and break my heart. I had apparently had repressed all feelings towards my dad and the situation for 11 or 12 years without even knowing it.
Until this year I never noticed I had abandonment issues or daddy issues. I thought all my anger was just cuz of my siblings (and yes part of it definitely was), but a part I hadn't realized was that I was suppressing other feelings like sadness and covering it with anger. Almost every time I've ever been angry, it was actually not anger that I was feeling it was sadness... but I thought it was better for me to get mad then to cry like a wussy.
Getting mad only gets you so far, plus you are more likely to lose friends and family and everyone you love that way, but if you're like me you haven't found a way to actually love anyone... because giving someone that kind of power over how you feel is scary. Being sad is a better way to deal with the horrible feelings of betrayal and horrible circumstances... I'm not saying you should wallow in self pity and cry all the time.. .I'm saying that crying is a part of the grieving process, because YES YOU ARE GRIEVING. Despite what you think, grieving doesn't have to be over just something big, it can be over small things like losing a friend or failing a test... So here's what you should be going through:
1. Denial and/or Isolation
2. Anger (it's better to not stay on this stage to long, it can make things worse)
3. Bargaining
4. Depression (don't stay to long on this one either)
5. Acceptance
You will hit all 5 stages at least once in this process (most likely), but if your like me you'll go through all of them multiple times in one day or over the week. It doesn't matter the order of 1-4 but as long as you can finally find acceptance, that's all that actually matters. Also, if you get stuck on an angry stage or depression for to long, seek help.. either from friends, family, youtube videos (they can help), help lines, anywhere you possibly can... You deserve to be happy and the only way you can do it is if you get rid of your negative feelings and finally realize your better then what's happening to you and move on, knowing that at some point it will have to get better... Just wait it out, just wait it out. Also if you ever need help, feel free to contact me. Send me a message or whatever, I'm hear to listen and I will try to help, because even though you're probably a stranger, I do love you. I want to help. I'm here for you if no one else is, I always will be. You matter, in my opinion more then I do. Lets do what it takes to make you as happy as I believe you deserve.
EMBRACE YOUR WOMANHOOD!!!
Lately I've been wondering if I'm doing something wrong. It seems like everybody finds someone newer and better and then doesn't want to be friends anymore, and I'm wondering why. Am I really that horrible of a person that you feel the need to find someone better? I'm 100% honest, isn't that what people want? Trust without any doubt? I hate it when I ask someone if I look like crap and they say "no" but really they want to say "kinda." I want them to tell me so I can fix it, but apparently when they ask that question they don't want a real opinion, they just want one that will make them feel better. Would you really rather me tell you that you look amazing, then later realize you don't when a hot guy doesn't want to make-out with you? Or would you rather me tell you my real opinion and then try to help you look better so you can get the hot guy?
People just don't make sense. Also, apparently, guys don't want a girl with a personality or a body. They can a stick figure girl with nothing interesting about her. Every guy will claim that guys want a girl with a body, but the ones telling you that are never the ones that do... so if everyone is claiming other guys want bodied women... where are these other guys???? Or another pet peeve that male friends do is..
Me: "I look so ugly."
Male Friend (call him FM): "No you don't."
Me: "Guys don't like me cuz I"m ugly."
MF: "You're not ugly."
Me: "Then why don't you like me?"
FM: "Your not my type."
Me: "Yeah cuz I'm fat and ugly."
FM: "I'm just weird, I like stick skinny short girls."
Me: "So does every man..."
FM: "No I'm just weird."
Me: "You mean average?"
FM: "No, most guys aren't like me."
Me: "Then why can't I find a guy that likes me."
FM: "I don't know....."
Me: "Proof and point."
Guys stop telling normal girls that guys like girls with bodies and a personality... MEN may like that, but guys and boys do not. So women who have normal bodies, just wait til your older (23-30) and the real MEN come around, that's when the stick skinny women will be dead (anorexia) and MEN realize what is actually delicious. ;P
Also for those stick skinny women, why do you want to look like that? YOU look like a little BOY... why do you want to look like a boy? That doesn't make any sense. Girls are meant to have boobs and a butt, it's genetically programmed into our genes, stop being anorexic or working out to much so you will look more like a boy. EMBRACE YOUR WOMANHOOD.
People just don't make sense. Also, apparently, guys don't want a girl with a personality or a body. They can a stick figure girl with nothing interesting about her. Every guy will claim that guys want a girl with a body, but the ones telling you that are never the ones that do... so if everyone is claiming other guys want bodied women... where are these other guys???? Or another pet peeve that male friends do is..
Me: "I look so ugly."
Male Friend (call him FM): "No you don't."
Me: "Guys don't like me cuz I"m ugly."
MF: "You're not ugly."
Me: "Then why don't you like me?"
FM: "Your not my type."
Me: "Yeah cuz I'm fat and ugly."
FM: "I'm just weird, I like stick skinny short girls."
Me: "So does every man..."
FM: "No I'm just weird."
Me: "You mean average?"
FM: "No, most guys aren't like me."
Me: "Then why can't I find a guy that likes me."
FM: "I don't know....."
Me: "Proof and point."
Guys stop telling normal girls that guys like girls with bodies and a personality... MEN may like that, but guys and boys do not. So women who have normal bodies, just wait til your older (23-30) and the real MEN come around, that's when the stick skinny women will be dead (anorexia) and MEN realize what is actually delicious. ;P
Also for those stick skinny women, why do you want to look like that? YOU look like a little BOY... why do you want to look like a boy? That doesn't make any sense. Girls are meant to have boobs and a butt, it's genetically programmed into our genes, stop being anorexic or working out to much so you will look more like a boy. EMBRACE YOUR WOMANHOOD.
Monday, January 28, 2013
Douche Bag Couples
After watching Micheal and Jan's Dinner Party episode of The Office, I started to notice more when couples called each other "babe." Seems to me the only couples that refer to each other as "babe" are what I like to call "Douche Bag Couples." Let me expound upon this so you can figure out if you 2 are in a "DBC" or if your friends are.
1 or 2 of the people in the relationship are full of themselves, most likely the male. He's one of those guys that remind you of 13 year old boys with their "gangster" hats on backward, thinking that it's cool to shoot spitballs at random people in restaurants or that porn makes you a hot sexy man. He of course expects you to give him a blow job and swallow, if there is no swallowing you suddenly become ugly to him.
1 or 2 of the people in the relationship are addicted to sex and mistake the relationship for love instead of what it really is, lust. It's a common mistake for immature or not fully grown humans, which obviously to be in this relationship someone isn't.
1 or 2 of the people in the relationship is obsessed with sexy cars/motorcycles/trucks and would rather spend money on his car then anyone or anything else.
1 or 2 of the people in the relationship get overly possessive or controlling or has some serious jealousy issues. They'll normally get really bossy and expect you to stop hanging out with your friends because he or she "wants to be with you all the time", but really he or she doesn't want you to find someone better, because he or she knows you can.
Last 1 or 2 of the people in the relationship has or has had self-esteem issues. You can normally tell that they do or did because they over compensate or sluting around.
They are the most distinctive type of relationship to pick out and probably one of the worst to be in. If you see one of your friends in this relationship, confront them and lose your friendship or stay quiet until they either break up or get a divorce.
1 or 2 of the people in the relationship are full of themselves, most likely the male. He's one of those guys that remind you of 13 year old boys with their "gangster" hats on backward, thinking that it's cool to shoot spitballs at random people in restaurants or that porn makes you a hot sexy man. He of course expects you to give him a blow job and swallow, if there is no swallowing you suddenly become ugly to him.
1 or 2 of the people in the relationship are addicted to sex and mistake the relationship for love instead of what it really is, lust. It's a common mistake for immature or not fully grown humans, which obviously to be in this relationship someone isn't.
1 or 2 of the people in the relationship is obsessed with sexy cars/motorcycles/trucks and would rather spend money on his car then anyone or anything else.
1 or 2 of the people in the relationship get overly possessive or controlling or has some serious jealousy issues. They'll normally get really bossy and expect you to stop hanging out with your friends because he or she "wants to be with you all the time", but really he or she doesn't want you to find someone better, because he or she knows you can.
Last 1 or 2 of the people in the relationship has or has had self-esteem issues. You can normally tell that they do or did because they over compensate or sluting around.
They are the most distinctive type of relationship to pick out and probably one of the worst to be in. If you see one of your friends in this relationship, confront them and lose your friendship or stay quiet until they either break up or get a divorce.
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